Or maybe not so hilariously. It all depends on how you define the concept of “city.”

According to STORAGECafé, the nationwide self-storage search website that conducted the research, a city means: the housing affordability index, median household income, crime rate, public schools ranking, and number of restaurants and shopping “avenues.”

Fine. And considering these criteria, STORAGECafé says Southlake scored the highest of 1,000 sampled suburbs. The number one reason our fancy neighbor to the northeast came out on top is moolah. Southlake is “one of the most prosperous suburban communities in the country, with households earning about $240,200/year.”


Other explanations for Southlake’s top billing include “excellent schooling” (haha!), “low population density,” many local opportunities for jobs, twice as many retail stores per 1,000 locals as in the average suburb, 3.8 restaurants for every 1,000 residents, and “ample opportunity for outdoor entertainment.”

Having lived in some cities in my time, including in perhaps the citiest city in the history of mankind, New York, I’m thinking STORAGECafé is more interested in marketing than reality. I know. It strains belief that an American company would sideways argue for its own existence via “data.” You have to realize. We will take any opportunity that comes our way to poke at Southlake. And here we are.

A city to me is a lot more than what STORAGECafé’s marketeers may think it is. Where are you going to see a rock show in Southlake? Where can you see — and buy — locally made art in Southlake? Where can you travel easily on foot or by public transportation in Southlake? And I’m not talking about cruising from the fro-yo spot to Old Navy then the movie theater. That doesn’t count as a change in scenery. And where can you play a pickup game of hoops with people who aren’t fortysomething dentists or go skateboarding in Southlake? Where can you take in a professional play or musical in Southlake? Where can you knock back a pint or three for less than it takes to buy a gently used liver on the black market in Southlake? And, lastly, has STORAGECafé ever seen a real city? A real city is made up of adventurous or historic but always original architecture, not inoffensive, unoriginal cookie-cutter bullshit like in Southlake.

Says STORAGECafé, “Living [in Southlake] means you get plenty of space, safe streets, and good schools, plus an excellent mix of lifestyle-oriented amenities.”

Does that sound like a city to you? In the cities where I lived and grew up, you had whatever the opposite of “plenty of space” is, the safety of the streets was up to you and your weaponry, and the schools were more like jails. Indeed, I know the website is working off the concept of the ideal city. I just think a little reality would have made for a much more interesting report.

The one thing I do like about STORAGECafé’s data is that while ruby-red Southlake may be the most city-like suburb in the country, most of the rest of the Top 20 are near blue metropolitan regions, because of course they are. — Anthony Mariani


This column reflects the opinions of the editorial board and not the Fort Worth Weekly. To submit a column, please email Editor Anthony Mariani at Submissions will be edited for factuality and clarity.


  1. The Fox says “It’s truly serendipitous how Anthony’s story about voting rights posted this past January dovetails so nicely with the news that Southlake has streamlined the process for selecting city officials declaring the once-upcoming city council election no longer scheduled for next month unnecessary. Yet another new normal miracle eliminates the hassle of holding elections and counting all those meaningless ballots, and since write in votes are no longer accepted, it’s so much easier to declare the chosen winners… Now those lucky comrade citizens of Southlake have time to do something useful like going down to the gatehouse and updating their multipass. =^.^= ©2022

  2. Thank you for exposing the ridiculousness of all these “surveys” that say Southlake is a good place to live. It represents everything wrong with this country. I grew up very close to Southlake and it felt great to get away from there. It’s so materialistic and hollow, and now it’s regressive and bigoted politics are on display for the whole world to see.